recognize the difference between “feelings” and “filling a void”. Nobody else can make you complete. You have to be complete all on your own.
Completeness doesn’t mean perfection, just contentment with your achievements and mistakes. Content with yourself and who you are with boundaries and humility. Only then, will you attract the love you seek.
Love attracts love, so when you operate out of love for yourself (not a selfish, prideful love) but a love full of standards, personal values and self-care, suddenly, the space you thought you didn’t have for additional love, will open up, and your cup will run over.